Thinning down the herd.
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After Hours
This is page 5 of the discussion. Read the opening post
by meryllogue
by ontheropes
I weighed myself last night. One hundred and ninety pounds. That's another 8 pounds in slightly less than a month for a total weight loss of 44 pounds.
I'm 10 pounds away from my goal but now I'm facing something I didn't expect. My wife has suggested that I stop dieting now and maintain my weight at 190.
I always listen to my wife but I decide for myself.
I think what I am going to do is start my exercise program in earnest. We just bought a NordicTrack A2105 treadmill and I'm looking forward to getting into walking. Haven't done it yet. I will start on Monday. I solved my bone-spur problems at home on my own without getting the recommended surgery. I can finally walk without pain!
I'm going to continue my food/calorie journal and stay below what I need to maintain weight so I expect the next 10 pounds to take longer to lose but I'll be more fit when I get there. To do it I'm going to increase my calories to the point that I'll have enough energy to exercise without feeling light-headed/dizzy. Staying 1000+ calories below a maintenance diet was pretty hard on me when I threw exercise into my lifestyle.
So that's it. Simple math/counting calories does work. Eating healthful foods alleviated hunger. Between meals I've only felt hungry a few times. Fresh fruits and vegetables took care of it. I didn't have to go with the expense of NutriSystem or some other diet-plan. Plain fruits, vegetables and lean meats available at my grocery store have worked.
I followed a lot of the advice that I've found in this discussion. I've learned a lot on my own too.
Ten pounds to go and I'm going to give myself two to three months to get there.
by meryllogue
Way to GO Ropes! That is just fantastic. I know you have inspired others. I'm also glad you are exercising. Being a good weight is only part of the health ratio.
How did you resolve the bone-spur issue? That was the first thing I thought of when you mentioned the Nordic Trac.
by ontheropes
I called NordicTrack's Customer Service and repeated the error code shown on the console. They said it was a bad console so they're shipping a new one that should be here in two weeks. Two weeks! I hope the new one lasts.
On to the spurs:
What I did was very simple, I took long, hot foot bath's. Water so hot I had to ease my foot into it. I have a Conair foot bath that keeps the water circulating and warm.
After an hour my foot would be crinkly and soft. I'd attack the callouses over the spurs with a very coarse and sturdy emery board. I did that for five days in a row before getting down to skin-level where the spurs/callouses don't bother me.
I used to use a razor knife to trim one. That gave temporary relief. I had two new ones where a knife was out of the question. They were the most painful. To stay pain-free I just take my emery board to all three spots once a day after my shower.
I hope that my so called remedy is going to hold up to the treadmill. That will be the true test.
by ontheropes
It's been a month since I hit 190 pounds. I've not only maintained my weight for a month I've actually lost another couple of pounds, I just weighed myself at 188. Not bad since this is historically, for me, the toughest time of the year to lose weight. I've made it thru Thanksgiving and Christmas without packing on any extra pounds. I have a weight loss of at least 46 pounds over the past few months. I intend to keep it off and even lose a few more pounds by controlling my diet and exercising regularly.
It's been about a month since I've kept a food journal. I don't intend to do that anymore. It served it's purpose by making me aware of my caloric intake each day. Now that I've learned a few things I'm more prone to eating an apple or an orange than I am to grab food with empty calories.
Dirk sent me an excellent book, ?Eat To Live? by Dr. Joel Furhman. I've set myself an easy goal of reading one chapter a day until I get thru it. It looks very promising. I'm one who is prone to gain weight over time and it appears that may be a good thing if I eat the foods that are good for me. Having a lower metabolism isn't necessarily a bad thing.
On the exercise front... I'm working at it. NordicTrack's excellent customer service and field support set our new treadmill right on the 15th and since then, in 9 days of using it, I have logged 17 miles and 2185 calories burned. At that rate I'll shed roughly 25 pounds worth of calories in a year.
I haven't set a lower weight limit. If I'm eating the right foods my weight will be what it's supposed to be. Who knows? I might even hit 170 or less and maintain my weight there. According to Dr. Furhman that's not unrealistic. I'll just have to see how it goes. It would be pretty wild to lose another 18 pounds or more while becoming more fit thru exercise.
I've cut alcohol out of my diet completely. Although I could easily afford the calories if I only had a couple of beers per day or a few on the weekend I like the idea of not having to make allowances for them so I've quit drinking alcohol altogether. I'm taking this ?diet? thing seriously. It's become a way of life.
That's my update. Lost a couple of pounds and I'm probably going to lose a few more. Doing just fine. Life is good.
by tig2
Wonderful news to hear! I know that you have been working hard at this and I am so glad to hear of your successes with it!
Also a good reminder to me to get off of my tail and DO something. I spend entirely too much time with the computer and not nearly enough moving around. Time to do some dancing with the chores! Having said that, it is difficult to take a walk when there is no safe place to do it. Minnesota is making up for lost time where the snow is concerned, it seems!
Oh well- just need to get up and DO IT!
by ontheropes
by meryllogue
I've wondered how you are doing for the season. I'm happy to hear you've made it through better than unscathed. Congratulations!
I think you have said it right... this has become a way of life. Indeed, eating poorly is a way of life. So it makes sense that eating well is a way of life as well. I think that because it is so easy to slip into the bad habits (would this be the "Satan-icon"... a "sin"?), that we don't even realize we have done it until (maybe) one day we wake up to the fact that we are way overweight (or smokers, or gamblers or whatever) and realize something is wrong. But similar to being in an abusive relationship, we don't really realize we're there until someone/something wakes us up to the fact.
Ah well, you have done a great thing by losing the weight, but an even greater thing by keeping us motivated and thinking about it for ourselves. Thank you for that.
Personally I am being very careful. I had a minor surgery that has grounded me from any form of exercise until after mid-January. I went from 100 mph to 0 in a day. Talk about an adjustment! Wow! I think I am over the worst of it, but it was a huge psychological adjustment as well as eating habits and everything else.
Keep up the good work. I will watch for more updates from this thread.
by ontheropes
I hope that I always remember how I felt when I finally realized how much trouble I've had with my weight and diet over the years.
What was I thinking?
It's cool that you're being careful now that you have some downtime. Good that you're smart enough to realize the change in your lifestyle requires other changes.
I got hurt a couple of years ago and that's when I started to pack on the pounds. I was eating more and doing less. Bad combination. I can't recommend it.
Changing the habits of a lifetime isn't easy. My wife has even had a hard time with my diet changes. She worried about me. It's getting better. Today she surprised me with some Clementine oranges and grapefruit after she went shopping. Now I can probably stay on my slow weight-loss program and it should be fine with her. You know the old saying, "If she's happy, I'm happy."
Old habits can sometimes die hard. It ought to be a real trip when my wife and I both quit smoking at the same time next year. Hopefully you won't be reading about it in the paper.
Smoking is a 35 year habit and I'm going to give it up in January. I'm not doing the New Years resolution thing. I have to get into my Dr. and get a prescription for some drugs before I stop. I plan on quitting towards the end of the month. Yeehaaa! I'll probably post about that here too occasionally. Why not?
by morrisntex
You know I mentioned the "try before you buy" most gym's and fitness centers allow. And I had been shopping around some myself.
We have been working on a new office building where I work, it's over 6 months behind schedule now, but we're getting close to move-in. Well I'm not just the I.T. guy around here, I'm also Mr. Fixit, Mr Haul-it, you name it cause I've got tools and a pickup I get volunteered for things. That's a bit beside the point though. We've gotten to the setting-up furniture stage of the new office building. Since late October we have recieved shipments of somewhere between 27,000 and 30,000 lbs of new furniture (don't need no stinkin' gym! :) ). We're not just talking about unloading the trucks. Had to unpack and move the furniture to the appropriate offices and a little more than half of that has been new office "cube" systems that needed a lot of assembly work done.
Made it through Thanksgiving w/o putting on any extra weight. Then I put on about 4 lbs while assebling all the office cubes, but I went down another pants size!!! I am very close to the size I was when I got married.
Alas, this last week I waivered, wobbled and fell! I have put on another 4 lbs - and my pants size didn't change. Pumpkin pie, oh my!
Mashed potatoes, dressing and best of all TURKEY! Please lord have mercy!
by ontheropes
by meryllogue
I grew up in the way rural areas of Montana, and the bush of B.C. So I never watched TV or movies. I still don't, but I KNOW YOUR REFERENCE!!!! (I'm very proud of this, in case you couldn't tell. :-) ...)
I went to my chiropractor one day, and took of my employee badge. He said, "I don't need no stinkin' badge." I was clueless, so he 'splained me that it was a movie line. I can't remember the movie or the actor now, but I occasionally use that line now. It makes me sound like I have SOME cultural references! :-)
by jdclyde
Congrats. Keep up the good work. :)
I am down 5 lbs, and got about another 30 to go. Just needed to get beyond the holidays because life was too hectic with the boys to even think about anything.
In about a week, I think I am going to try the purge/flush that Mae did a few months back, and then start adding more exercise in. I already don't eat much that is unhealthy, and almost NEVER drink sugary pop. Just need to move more. ThingOne wants me to start his training for Track season pretty soon, so that will get me out.
by jamesrl
One of my neighbours gave us a treadmill.
My wife has been recovering from an accident in the spring and this person had switched to an eliptical and wanted my wife to get some exercise in the winter - she used to walk but the walker is not so good on ice.
I had 2 weeks on the thing, just getting warmed up when I broke my ankle.
Now it will be 7 weeks, and I will have to start over again.
I am getting some workout hauling my butt up and down stairs. My calf, biceps and triceps get a workout on crutches.
James
by ontheropes
by hal 9000
I can remember a long Time Ago In a Galaxy Far Far Away when and Apprentice or two tried to kill me. I spent 18 months tied to a bed in a Hospital. The nursing staff where the ones who insisted that I eat what I would normally and took no notice that I didn't need the same intake of food when I was doing nothing.
They got really funny when I started only eating 1 meal a day or less and threatened me on more than one occasion that if I didn't start to eat more they would take steps.
I didn't put on much weight while I was there only a couple of pounds and even then that was all fat and I lost it as soon as the Phyiso started. The main thing was the loss of Muscle Mass which was a killer to rebuild. :(
Col
by ontheropes
due to inactivity over the past couple of years. I'm not as interested now in building up muscle as I was before I got hurt. I'm not sure why. If I can just be healthy I think that will be enough for me.
On another topic: You don't say that you did but I suffered thru a long bout of depression after I got hurt. That added to my weight gain as I ate to make myself "feel better". In other words, I ate for no good reason. I could've been so much farther down the road health-wise if I'd had my shlt together sooner but it didn't happen that way. My life-style of excess food and alcohol only deepened my depression. I can see it now but I couldn't when I was in the middle of it.
Oh well.
I'm trying to keep doing what seems to be working. I'm past the depression and moving on with my life. Reading Dr. Fuhrman's book supports what I've learned since I've been seriously trying to lead a healthier life-style. Fruits, veggies and exercise can make a difference in my health and my steenkin' attitude! I have a better self-image. I'm back to feeling good about myself. That's worth all of the trouble of losing the weight.
I'm trying to avoid the same fate as my Father. He died of a heart attack at age 58. I'm approaching that age all too quickly. My Dad was quite heavy and a "meat and potatoes" man. I was raised the same way. On the bright side, my Mother's side of the family all lived to their 70's and 80's. My Mother herself is still going strong at 93. Now I kid my wife about us both being around that long. It could happen. That would be a trip. :D
Just to go over a few things again... I never paid attention to nutrition information throughout the years. If anyone were to ask I would've said that meat had more protein than any vegetable. I now know that 100 calories of broccoli has twice the protein of 100 calories of beef. Who'd a thunk it?
Today we went out to lunch at the only restaurant nearby to offer a halfway decent salad-bar. Ordinarily, before I started to learn more about diet, I would've chosen a one of the many local steak restaurants. I also would've thought that I needed steak because I'm working out.
I see a real need for educating people about nutrition but they have to want to learn first. I've probably heard everything before but I wasn't interested in listening. Now I'm paying attention. Thank the FSM it's not too late.
This is the last day of the year. I've been thinking about how things might be different next year at this time. (Hopefully I'll be around to see it.) Next year I might look back and think that 188 pounds was way to heavy for me. I remember being at 165 once shortly after I got out of the service. I can see that happening again if I eat properly and keep up my modest exercise program.
I think of Neil walking all over, walking out of his way even just to get the exercise. I think of the 600+ miles that Tigger puts in in training for the 3-Day. Myself? I'm up to almost three miles a day on the treadmill. That's not too bad for just starting.
I'm trying to make up for lost time even though there is no way to go back. I can go forward knowing that I'm doing the best that I can do. Giving up smoking is going to be a big deal. Wahoo! It's a good idea now that it's my idea. I'm going to save my cigarette money and probably buy a Mac at some future date.
What else would I do? If blood tests and Doctors were less expensive I'd like to have some tests done to use as a benchmark and do that every year at this time. Unfortunately, I can't afford it. I'm just going to follow the advice in Dr. Fuhrman's book, "Eat To Live", as closely as I can and assume that I'm becoming healthier. I recommend that book to anyone who is serious about losing weight.
Onward and upward. New Years Eve for us and not a beer or alcoholic beverage in sight. I like it like that. :0
by hal 9000
[b]HAPPY NEW YEAR.[/b] It should be happening very soon so [b]ENJOY.[/b] B-)
Oh Well a few hours ago now. :(
As for me when I first got that gearbox deposited on me I was really [b]Peeved Off[/b] but mainly because no one would drag the apprentice over and hold him down wile I beat the S##t out of him. Actually I never got the chance to get back at him because I latter found out that he was [b]High As A Kite[/b] at the time and had been fired long before I escaped the Meatworks. Actually I never went back there either but that's another story. :D
Moral of the story is [b]Don't Help Apprentices Ever.[/b] It's Bloody Dangerous and Painful as well.
I'm naturally a joker so while I wasn't feeling overly great most people thought that I was handling the situation quite well but until I knew that I could walk again it was touch & go there for a while, but once I started feeling my feet again I felt much better though it wasn't all plain sailing. It's just so [b]Boring[/b] being stuck in a place like that for so long. Add to that, that the Hospital was 160 KMS away from home didn't help but after they moved me back to Brisbane things got a bit better as the entire family was brought down as well and the wife only had a few KMS to drive to the Hospital.
It was actually much worse after the Phyiso started as I had been laying on my back so long doing nothing that I had no muscle mass left despite what they insisted while I was laying on the bed. :D
But that was over 20 years ago now and to be quite honest I never want to be in that position again. Now as I'm allergic to Hospitals I may visit one if something gets broken or some other problem but I do try to avoid them.
About 15 years ago now I rocked up to the Local MeatWorks and said I'm not feeling all that well. Turned out to be a Infected Gall Bladder that was about to burst. The look on the Quacks face was priceless as he was insisting that it must really hurt, I just said that I'm a bit uncomfortable while he was rushing to fill me full of Morphine. :^0
Or another time when I walked into the same MeatWorks saying I think I've hurt myself and broken my arm. The Quack was very condescending and insisted why I thought this I I just lifted the coat off my arm exposing a bone sticking out. He fainted with shock. :D
Anyway have a good Celebration and enjoy yourself. There is no tomorrow that isn't worth enjoying yourself for. Provided you are happy within yourself everything is OK with the world. :0
Col
Before you kick the smoking and go with whatever else you're going to do, take a few readings of your resting heart rate so you can compare "then" - six months, a year - with "now". Do this because every little encouragement is good and I guarantee that it won't go UP.
I'm just coming up to the first anniversary of my serious walking and my own resting heart rate has gone down ten beats per minute between my own "then" and "now".
But I was a real lazy slug...
Good luck!
Neil :D
by ontheropes
the bus will probably be a write off and you'll walk away.
Happy New Year!
Neil :D
by meryllogue
Ugh! But on the other hand, seeing him fall out at sight of the bone and your "understatement" of the issue must have been priceless. It sounds like you have endured some incredible accidents. Yuk!
Happy New Year!
by meryllogue
by sobaldrick
I made a resolution to NEVER buy another cigarette. That was in 1988 - still sticking to it today.
Les.
by ontheropes
I'm living on a pretty strict/small budget right now and Chantix has to be affordable for me to try it. If it's not in my price range I'll be quitting cold turkey. We'll see how much it costs after my wife gets a prescription this coming Friday. I roll my own and spend less than $20.00/week on tobacco. Chantix is going to have to come in close to that price.
I quit for five months once and I was a heavy smoker then too. I started back up when I had a few beers while fishing and I've been smoking since.
If I quit before I can quit again. Going to do it, Chantix or not.
by hal 9000
Didn't ask to look when I first walked in to the MeatWorks. Here we have to see a Triage Nurse who sets the order that the customers see the Quack/s. Unless you come in , in a Meatwagon then the Ambo's see the Triage Nurse. I've only had 4 rides in a Meatwagon over a few more years than 21. :D
As for breaking things I've had a few broken bones over the years but over all not that many. Granted the ones that have occurred have been spectacular but I've only broken legs a few times arms about 3 times, Ribs don't count do they? OK I've broken a few of those over the years well more correctly I've broken several at a time and there have been a few different instances. :D
Several Broken Collar Bones, A couple of Scaffolds and 1 Fractured Skull and that's about it for breaks. But as I got older things have gone wrong more often. :0
Seems that the Built in Fixing System doesn't work anywhere near as well as it used to. :^0
Col
by meryllogue
by pser
Worked for me! Smoked for 20 some odd years, tried to 'quit' countless times. The Chantix is the ONLY thing that ever actually HELPED with nicotine withdrawal. No gums or patches or other assorted remedies ever helped. But the Chantix ... WOW!
Now, I must confess, I smoked more than a handful of Cuban Cigars while on vacation and I was a little concerned it might turn me back to the Dark side ... but I'm still good. No cigarettes, No cravings, No worries!
That being said ... I also added ten pounds while on vacation (which included zip lining, deep sea fishing, snorkeling, swimming, hiking, ATV off-roading, etc.) to my already overweight frame. Over a four year ('01-'05) period I had three surgeries which left me down. Put on an astronomical 60 lbs in that 'down' time that I still have not managed to take off (lack of effort).
With the help of Chantix I quit smoking. With the help of my wife, this thread, and the new gym equipment coming home today I hope to slim down a bit, if nothing else.
Hmmmm, who would have thought being a quitter could feel so damn good!?!?!
Much luck to ya OTR (and all)!! Feel free to query me about the Chantix (via TR or PM), if you so desire.
PSer
by ontheropes
I think our treadmill is helping me to stay motivated. It keeps track of calories based on weight of the user. I've burned off over a pounds worth of calories on it in less than a month. To give you an idea, that takes about 40 minutes a day, seven days a week.
I'm not as interested in building up muscle as I once was. After reading up on it I think that it's more important for my health that I keep the fat off and lose even more fat. I might make time for free weights later but I just don't care to spend a lot of time trying to gain muscle mass. Been there, done that and I think, for me, the benefits of walking are more pertinent.
Motivation is key. Everyone's got to find their own. I'm sufficiently motivated to keep walking and am ready to hit the treadmill for my second go-round of the day after I post this. I'm smoking a cigarette first. :^0
You may have read my post to lmunday above. That explains where I'm at with Chantix. It all depends on the co-pay. I hope it's low so I can get it but I won't know for a little while yet. Either way I'm quitting come Hell or high-water. January 31st is going to be the last day that I smoke. You may be reading about me in the paper sometime during the following week. "Local man quits smoking, goes on rampage!" Could be interesting.
Much luck to you with your exercise equipment. If you're thinking about losing weight too you might want to take a look at Dr. Fuhrman's book, "Eat To Live". I think it's a valuable tool for weight-loss. I have a much better idea of nutritional needs from reading it. It ties in very well to the good advice given in this thread. I spend my grocery budget much wiser now. I eat a lot of fruits and veggies on a relatively meat-free diet. It's surprising to me how good I feel from doing that. I feel great.
by pser
Oh no, not EVEN trying to build muscles! I have just become a tubby b!tch, not looking to be a 'muscle' guy (don't have the muscle mass in my upper chest and left arm anyway, due to my P.S.)! The equipment is an Elliptical a Treadmill and other assorted weight loss goodies my wife used at a Gym (Not Silver but ? ) to lose 25 lbs. She said she would help me and cancel her membership if we had at least "THIS" equipment. Of course, she had to have the best to give up her membership so I now have another reason to lose weight ? I've already paid dearly for it! ;)
She has already taken over my meals and I promised not to cheat, which I won't.
The Chantix ? if your insurance covers it, you have better coverage than I and I've got pretty damn good coverage! My Doc. Told me he has not seen an instance yet where Chantix was covered by Insurance but he had 5 patients that had succeeded in quitting, so far. I did shop around and found the cheapest. It's a three month program (two pills a day). You can buy it in one month intervals at a time (to help the budget). The most expensive was from Walgreen's at $145.00 USD per month (again, 3 month program), the cheapest was $95.00 USD at Sam's Wholesale Pharmacy. If you decide to try it, shop EVERY Pharmacy in town before you buy, the pricing WILL be different. The $300.00 it cost me was worth every penny, I do hope you can manage to swing the cost ? it is sooooo worth it!
Luck to all!!!
by sobaldrick
.. quit buying. Bumming cigarettes becomes so tiresome after a while you'll just say f*ck-it it's too much trouble to smoke.
The other thing, and I know people that do this today, is do not smoke until after a certain time each day. Push this time back as you the days pass.
Example, today I will not have a fag before 9am. Next week 9:30, etc. I found that I was lasting until 6pm, when I would go to the pub and bum a fag on the way home from work.
Once down the pub I would make a rule .. no more than one cigarette per pint .. I was on 20 pints a day at one point ;-)
Les.
"You may have read my post to lmunday above. That explains where I'm at with Chantix. It all depends on the co-pay. I hope it's low so I can get it but I won't know for a little while yet. Either way I'm quitting come Hell or high-water. January 31st is going to be the last day that I smoke. You may be reading about me in the paper sometime during the following week. "Local man quits smoking, goes on rampage!" Could be interesting."
by beth blakely
the cost of the Chantix could equal or be less than the cost of actually smoking. And, in the long run, you'll actually be saving money 'cause eventually you won't have to buy either.
That being said, I believe that if you really want to quit, you'll quit.
by ontheropes
by hal 9000
Lets see unloading trucks is a starting point for injury and the odd cracked rib. Camping as a Scout when I was a kid caused a few breaks. Walking into unlit rooms to get to some piece of hardware in strange buildings has resulted in a few breaks. You fall over something that's not actually there or at least I was told it wasn't there. :(
The odd fall down stairs has been a major culprit though where you stager in with more stuff that you can comfortably carry and have an incident while getting to the work area. Or actually getting to the site as driving there can be dangerous. Once Upon a Time I used to drive 2,000 KMS per week or more. I would have been filling up the car several times a day while in the city and more if I had to drive in the country.
I actually never broke a single bone or even got anything worse than a bruise when I rode Racing Motorcycles. When I test drove the Race Cars I didn't get a single injury either but I did crash a few cars in a spectacular manner I've been told. :D
I did suffer one break on a Racing Yacht in a Sydney Hobart Race but that was an accident and much better than what could have happened. :0
By far the most dangerous thing that I've ever done was look after the kids that caused a lot of problems and a few breaks. Part of the reason my both my children don't want any children of their own they know what they where like. :^0
My son has turned 33 last year but I'm only 21 & I'm sticking to that story no matter what. :D
Then there is the Wife who is very dangerous to upset. B-)
Col
by pser
I replied to the other post before I read this! I used to roll my own as well, "Look Out" was my tobacco of choice and MUCH cheaper than smoking pre-fab, it was.
Looking at what you spend on smokes, with a little more for three months, you should be able to pull of the Chantix. Then you won't have to spend any $$$ on smokes or pills! ;)
I know I am just another 'ghost in the machine' and you've no reason to trust what I say any more than any other source out here in Cyber Space ... buuuuut, I gotta tell ya, The Chantix Program was freakin' painless dude!! Then, once the three months is up and the nicotine is out of your system ... it's all downhill.
Luck to ya either way, though! Let us know how that goes as well.
by ontheropes
I'll have to do it the old hard way because I'm not paying that much. I'm not dipping into my savings to do it. Not going to happen.
Isn't it crazy that insurance won't cover it? Everybody tells you that quitting smoking is one of the best things you can do for your health and health insurance won't cover it. That's just nuts!
by ontheropes
Good idea!
The cigarette I'm going to miss the most is the one I have with my first cup of coffee. That's going to change. I'm cutting coffee out of my diet too. I'll be done with that before the end of the month. I'm down to 2 cups of coffee per day and tomorrow I'll be down to one. Maybe Monday I won't even have a cup so my routine is changing. I've cut back slowly to avoid the no-caffeine headaches. I'll take Aspirin if I get one though it makes my ears ring even more than they already do.
I'm going to start cutting back on how many cigarettes I smoke per day too. After your post I just realized that if I keep them in another room I'll be a little inconvenienced to have to smoke one. I can also determine that I have to smoke in another room. The more of a PITA I make it to smoke the easier it may be to get out of the habit.
I understand that the first three days of not smoking are the worst. I may have some Zyban to help me past the worst of it, not sure how much it costs yet.
No more caffeine and nicotine to start my day! That's going to be weird.
by nicknielsen
by ontheropes
by cmiller5400
by ontheropes
I was going to wait until the 26th to post my "official" weight but I feel like posting it today.
I'm at 182. That's 52 pounds weight loss total and six pounds since my last weigh-in.
Now that we're past the holiday season the pounds come off a lot easier.
Since starting this thread I've had a pretty thorough change of diet. I've consistently eaten more whole grains, vegetables and fruit than I ever have. I don't even say that I'm "on a diet" because all I'm doing is eating naturally nutritious foods.
Having the treadmill has helped. Our treadmill records time, distance and calories for two users. I have walked 82 miles and burned 8,498 calories. I have 54 miles just this month. The calories burned amount to just a bit less than 2.5 pounds for those interested in the math. (3500 calories to a pound).
All of my size 34 jeans fit now. I've been using them as a gage and didn't try them on until this morning. Proof positive that I've really trimmed down. When I started losing I wore size 38 and they were tight. Now I can comfortably wear clothes that I couldn't even button as little as one month ago.
To anyone who may have been following this thread looking for inspiration I'd seriously like to recommend that you read Dr. Fuhrmans book, "Eat To Live". I guess I've said that before. I've learned a lot since starting this thread and I can't emphasize too much how important that book has been to my education about nutrition.
Tonight is our weekly "big night out". We're going to the only local restaurant that has a salad bar. We have gift cards to Applebee's and Lone Star but we choose to eat "rabbit food" at Big Boy. They don't have the selection of veggies that I'd like to see but, like I said, they're the only local restaurant with a salad bar. I like the fact that it's an all-you-can-eat salad bar too.
Since I started to have more whole grains, fruit and veggies as the staple foods of my diet I am rarely hungry. I can eat my fill and still have a low calorie count for the day. I lose weight without trying to lose weight. It's easy. I abolished my made up schedule for weighing such and such by an arbitrary date. I'll weigh whatever, whenever I get there not to say that I don't still have a goal because I do. I fully expect to continue losing weight until I get to around 165. That will be a total weight loss of almost 70 pounds. Wish I had more "before" pictures, I could be in one of those weight-loss commercials.
It hasn't all been easy. There have been times when I felt that I wanted to eat everything in the house. What I do during those times is eat more of the foods that are good for me. I really like those steamer bags of vegetables. I'll eat a whole 12oz. bag of those with a Campbells Chunky soup poured over top making it into a very nutritious and filling meal. I also have apples, oranges, bananas and grapefruit on hand to take care of the munchies when I get them.
I haven't been on a denial diet either. In the past month I've eaten my fill of steak and pizza at some good restaurants. We've even gone out to get the "meat lovers" breakfast skillet a couple of times at a local cafe on Sunday mornings. There are probably enough calories in that one meal to fuel me for a day. I make that my indulgence for the day. Good stuff.
I feel like I'm having my cake and eating it too.
I say that anyone who wants to lose weight thru both diet and exercise can do it. If I can anyone can. I love good food as much as anyone else. The main change has been in my ideas about what constitutes "good food". If I'm going to *spend* calories feeding myself I want to get the biggest bang for the buck. I might allow myself a small handful of crackers and cookies every now and then but I don't eat the whole package. I have that kind of self-control because I have a much better idea of the caloric value of the foods I eat and what's really in them.
I see that there are several books about food being advertised on the tube, "Eat This Not That" being one of them. That could be a valuable book for some people. Anything that helps people to become educated about nutrition can't hurt.
I'm just rambling and likely to detract from my main point; I've lost 52 pounds and have another 15 or so to go. I might be at my goal weight before my birthday in May. I'm still making progress.
My blood pressure is right around 120/80 and my resting heart-rate hangs right around 66. My wife has quit smoking after 30+ years of it and her resting heart-rate is even better than mine. I'm next to quit smoking. I'm betting myself (?) that I won't gain weight after quitting too.
by jaqui
Do you know that one, 8 ounce glass of unsweetened yellow grapefruit juice a day helps with weight loss?
something in the yellow grapefruit either attacks fat cells or increases the metabolism to help burn calories, burn them without doing anything but breathing.
If spicy food fits your tastes, try Indian restaurants, most items are vegetarian on the menu, and quite a few have all you can eat buffets. That way you can eat your fill, and still have the same whole grain / vegetable focus in the meal. The meat items tend to be chicken.
I've a lot of friends who are both Vegan and Vegetarians, I've learned that by going to restaurants that aren't a "typical" North American menu, you can find a lot more variety in your meals, while keeping to the basic grains / vegetables / cereals for the bulk of the meal.
by ontheropes
If there was a restaurant serving it closer to home I'm sure we'd try it. We've been to each of the areas Chinese restaurants and I can't see how they even stay in business. The food is horrible, almost rotten. I think they all get it from the same place. No thanks.
The only other types of restaurants close offer Mexican food and traditional "North American" food. There are pizza restaurants seemingly on every other corner but there's only one worth going to. I ate half of a medium pizza there last week. It was great.
It's been a huge change for me to switch my diet over to mostly fruits and vegetables. Dr. Fuhrman recommends that a person eat a pound of both everyday. Some days I make it and some days I don't. I rarely feel as if I'm missing out on anything.
Prior to my greater understanding of nutrition my diet was fairly typical of others in this area. Now I think that vegans and vegetarians have been onto something for a long time. Albert Einstein said, "Nothing will benefit human health and increase chances for survival of life on Earth as much as the evolution to a vegetarian diet." Makes sense.
I think of you every once in awhile when I think about what my "ideal" weight will be. I may end up being as slim. I doubt it but I'll have to wait and see. I do know that I'm no longer interested in having bulging muscles. If I can stay healthy and fairly fit I'm satisfied. I'm not driven like I used to be. I like being calm and at peace much better. I'll let you kill 'em all. :D
I've stayed out of this one, until now.
Please know that from here your every last jot about it has been a gift.
I thank you.
by ontheropes
Glad you appreciate my post. You're welcome.
It took me awhile to post this reply. I seem to respond quickly to criticism and slowly to praise. That's just the way I'm built.
Tell you what...
Inkling felt so strongly about Dr. Fuhrman's book, "Eat To Live" that he sent it to me with only a single stipulation, that I pass it on to someone else who wants to learn about nutrition. Right now my daughter is reading it but I still retain control over it. I've already offered the book to one TR member who declined so I'm free to offer it to you. If you're interested in nutrition, would like to read the book and will pass it on when you're finished with it I'll send it to you. All you have to do is drop your address to me in a peermail message. As soon as my daughter is finished with it I'll drop it in snail-mail to you. I don't know when she'll be done with it but it shouldn't be too long.
The book is a valuable tool for a greater understanding of health and nutrition. I'm willing to part with it now because I think I've absorbed as much as I can get from it. If you want it just let me know.
by meryllogue
Congrats, Ropes.
I know you know this, but remember that weight does not equate to fat... as you build muscle, your weight won't change as much because muscle weighs more. It's the other stats that mean a lot... can you pinch an inch, resting heart rate, etc.
I agree with Santee. You have been an inspiration.
by ontheropes
I sure as hell didn't set out to be an inspiration to anybody. I'm just a fat guy who discovered that a bit of determination and knowledge can allow me to become healthier and slimmer. Haven't really had to work at it very hard so if folks are inspired by my laziness that's cool. All I need now is a job that'll be that easy. :)
You know you're right about the health markers. I've read somewhere lately that if you can pinch even 3/4 of an inch you may have too much body-fat. That's why I've revised my weight goal downward. I think I still have more fat to lose and remain healthy. Now that I know I can see where I'm at I feel I should shoot for the mean of a normal BMI calculation instead of just getting within the normal range. For my height the mean is 169 pounds. I'm thinking that I may have lost some muscle mass over the course of time so I'm going for 165. I'll see what the health markers show me the closer I get to that weight. I might even go lower. I won't know till I get there.
Right now I feel great physically but I'm just not quite satisfied with my personal BMI and won't be until I'm as lean as is healthy.
I've got a new attitude about myself and my bodyfat and I like it.
I feel like I do when I buy a new car. I think I'm the only one who has the exact same make and model until I notice that it seems like everybody and their uncle has one just like it.
That's how I see obesity. Once I realized that I was obese I started noticing fat people everywhere. They ARE everywhere. Before it struck me that I was obese I didn't really notice.
Weird.
Statistics from several places show that fully 2/3 of Americans are overweight and suffer from the associated health risks and complications. Sometimes we'll go to a restaurant and everyone in there is at least overweight if they aren't exactly obese. I almost feel out of place. It's kind of cool to make two trips to the salad bar and not feel guilty about it now. I used to feel guilty eating so much.
Dropping 52 pounds doesn't mean that I'm done. The trick is in having enough of a change in my lifestyle to keep it off. Any hard-head can starve themselves into a lower weight. Proves nothing. I'm hoping and trusting that I have enough knowledge to be able to, at least, stay this weight if not even lose more. Knowledge, for me, has made a huge difference. We'll see how well that's going to apply to smoking soon enough.
You've probably gathered all that by now. Just felt like saying it. Too much coffee this morning. I've broken my one cup rule. I've decided I like coffee too much. With sugar. :0
by sobaldrick
All of my size 34 jeans fit now. I've been using them as a gage and didn't try them on until this morning. Proof positive that I've really trimmed down. When I started losing I wore size 38 and they were tight. Now I can comfortably wear clothes that I couldn't even button as little as one month ago.
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I wish I'd kept all my pants from 10 years ago now. Would have saved me a fortune in not having to buy new clothes.
Les.
by ontheropes
I appreciate not only your last post, but the first as well, and over time, all between -- yours and the many who contribute.
The whole thing has been like a gold-standard study occasioned in, of all places, a tech forum. I think this why I be fond of the place; why I keep coming back. The humanity and more is irrepressible, in spite of the dour few who would have it otherwise in other threads.
My wakeup -- actually, both of them -- struck in July of 2005 within a period of two weeks. They were life threatening.
The way I'm built, to use your expression, had me clearing my decks, too. No quarter was given me. None would be asked. Go. Do.
Go where? Do what?
Like you -- like how much of the population? -- it was nutrition. Like you, I quibble(d) with myself about terms. Diet? Food? Life?
Long story short, I've gone from electrophoresis charts to Warsaw chronicles to hominid jaw morphology to pedaling a mile and a half for my fruits and veggies. I'm a card-carrying vegan right down to grass-fed filet mignon and soil mechanics.
I could recommend a book or three myself. You are welcome nevertheless to send yours (details on the way to your inbox). I eat books.
I am, Richard Anderson.
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by meryllogue
...It's called the "red-head effect" in psychology, or something like that. Someone says to you, "Wow, lots of red-heads in this town" and suddenly you start noticing red-heads everywhere.
I had surgery on my throat recently (voice box)... Dec 11, in fact, and had to stop all talking for 2 weeks (OUCH!) and all physical exertion, even aerobic, for 4 weeks. OMG. Depressing at first. But I got through that and would then eat a wholesome breakfast (bran cereal with un-cooked steel-cut Irish oatmeal -- I HATE cooked oatmeal and won't eat it for risk of vomiting and that is not drama-queen talking) covered with a smoothie of DanActiv, frozen strawberries, and a banana. Then I would eat a second small meal during the day about 1 or 2. Then nothing until the next morning. I was going to bed STARVING, but stayed slim. I actually lost some weight. Every day I thought of these posts and thought, "Keep the caloric intake at the burn level. You are sitting on your butt 24/7 so drop it drop it drop it."
This weekend, for the FIRST time since Dec 11, I worked out and did my strength training. I was sure my body was going to punish me firmly, but nope. My shoulders feel better than they have in 2 weeks (the last 2 of "no strength training," although I have been doing physical therapy work on them since mid-January).
My point? None really, other than you are right. It has to be about remembering that we are a very sophisticated machine, really, and that like a machine, we have to control and regulate it to some degree. I'm happy to say I suffered no more than some weakened muscles.
Oh... not pinching more than 3/4 inch? NOT! I would never be able to hoist an inversion or even climb that thing, even. I would be collapsing in the middle. My arms would be like rubber. I would be in serious caloric debt. Even at an inch I am getting into debt mode. I can especially tell when I take a bath and lie back; if my tummy caves in and looks like a starving refugee, I know I am too thin. But even at that I have an inch around the belly button. :-)
by cuteelf
Oh, just to pipe in ...
Good Job Buddy! You've lost so much weight I've gained it....b@stage....
(actually my thyroid's not behaving so I need some pills for that...)
As for Chantix, be warned. I've heard it causes some *ahem* INTERESTING dreams. Colorful, X rated, racey...you get the idea. I think it's because it makes you sleep better - you're in the Delta state where you dream happily.
So, If you have dreams about a firetruck with 8 legs chasing you around a block then walking up a building...to go see Nicole Kidman nude...you might be on Chantix.
Then again, you might be Col.
:P
CuteElf
by ontheropes
by beth blakely
You can do it!
Some extra motivation: Here's a timeline of the benefits you've already started receiving according to The American Cancer Society:
* After 20 minutes: Blood pressure drops to normal
* Pulse rate drops to normal
* Heart rate drops to normal
* Circulation has already improved
* Body temperature of hands and feet increase to normal
* After 8 hours: Cigarette breath disappears
* Carbon monoxide blood level drops to normal
* Oxygen blood level increases to normal
* Is already feeling better and it's only been 8 hours
* After 24 hours: Chances of heart attack begin to decrease
* After 48 hours: Nerve endings in nose and mouth begin to regrow
* Ability to smell and taste are enhanced
* Mucus begins to clear from the lungs
* After 2 weeks to 3 months: Circulation improves
* Walking becomes easier
* Lung function increases up to as much as 30%
* After 1 month to 9 months: Coughing, sinus congestion, fatigue, and shortness of breath all decrease
* Lung cilia have regrown, increasing the ability to "clean" lungs and reducing the likelihood of infection
* Overall energy increases
* After 1 year: Excess risk of coronary heart disease is half that of a smoker's
* After 5 years: Lung cancer death rate decreases by half
* After 10 years: Lung cancer death rate is now equivalent to that of a non-smoker
* Pre-cancerous cells are replaced by healthy cells
* Risk of other cancers (mouth, throat, bladder, etc) decreases
* After 15 years: You are at now no more at risk of heart disease than if you had never smoked!
by meryllogue
Especially with your hands. Part of smoking is psychological: It's your friend (but would a friend really harm you that much?). It's something to do with both your mouth and your hands. I found that I had to do what you are doing in thinking of myself as a non-smoker, 'cause a non-smoker does not have smoke wafting from her mouth. I also had to be busy when I got a real craving. Something with my hands... play guitar or piano, whittle, bake, ... anything to keep my hands and brain busy. The mouth part I tried to satisfy by eating lots of carrots, celery, stuff like that so I had some kind of "hand to mouth" thing going, but also had something satisfying going on (crunch crunch crunch). And, of course, reminding myself that once upon a time I had no problems with not smoking (when I was a kid... I started steady at 13) and so it IS possible in my life and I wanted that feeling back, and that it is a matter of time before I get back to that. To be honest, even now, some 16 years later, I STILL have the occassional urge for a cigarette. I quickly distract myself.
Oh! Like a little kid! My friends have a 2-year-old, just as cute as can be. When she gets whiny, they just distract her. For example, I'm sorry, you can't have that candy just now. Why don't you go bring mommy your new Glitzy Doll? lol.... whatever they use. But it works, and really, we are kicking an addiction that is as base and illogical as her little girl's whining for something that she can't/shouldn't have.
Well, good luck. You have gone through a very tough time losing weight, and you were successful. It wasn't easy, but you did it. I have faith in your ability to pull this one off too. I'll be rooting for you from Oregon!
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by ontheropes
Begin by standing on a comfortable surface where you have plenty of room at each side.
With a 5-lb potato sack in each hand, extend your arms straight out from your sides and hold them there as long as you can. Try to reach a full minute, and then relax.
Each day you'll find that you can hold this position for just a bit longer.
After a couple of weeks, move up to 10-lb sacks.
Then try 50-lb potato sacks and then eventually try to get to where you can lift a 100-lb potato sack in each hand and hold your arms straight for more than a full minute. (I'm at this level).
After you feel confident at that level, put a potato in each of the sacks.
by locolobo
Set about immediately to reading Chapter Four, The Dark Side of Animal Protein.
Potatoes? You mean, there are potatoes?
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by morrisntex
Noticed there hasn't been any activity here in a while & was wondering how you're doing with the diet?
I've been yo-yoing about 10 lbs the last 9 months. But I'm still at lower pants size I was when I last posted here. We have a couple of new dogs (walking companions) now, but it's been slow getting them acclimated to the household - they weren't puppies!
Started some more exercises targeting some problem areas - flabby abs. hope this works out.
We went to Carlsbad Caverns last weekend and went in through the main entrance which we were told was the equivalent to 84 flights of stairs. I had to stop 3 times on the way down because my legs were shaking so much. Then we walked the trail around to the "big room", all total about 4 hrs of walking. Then back on the surface we walked a couple of the shorter nature/history trails.
I was really surprised I was only sore for 2 days, I was afraid I was gonna pay for it for 3 - 4 days.
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by morrisntex
I maintained around 212lbs - 214lbs, the important thing is I didn't put on any extra!!!
still having a hard time getting any lower right now, I think it's because of my activity levels or lack there of!!!
Been getting up and walking around a bit more during the day. This is the time of year I'm glad I have an inside job, just wish it wasn't sitting on my behind 98% of the time though... arg...
How's it going at your end?
by ksoniat
Thanks for the welcome.
I lurked for awhile before jumping in - it seems like a good crowd here.
The one race we've always done. is the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure (5K)
That walk does sound daunting...
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by ksoniat
Hi I'm new around here - but just ran into this thread....
My suggestion is find a race or event that gives you a definite deadline. My kids were in a "running club" and I helped and went to the 5K races and ran too.
They also trained for a kids triathlon held at a local college and the first time their PE teacher who was coaching them said I could do one too I laughed. (they were swimming 4 laps, biking 2.5 miles and running .5 miles -- that doubled when they hit 12). I practiced with them cause I was there, but thought a "real" one was beyond my ability.
The second year I asked "what would I have to do?" My area has a "Sprint" triathlon in this case it is a pool swim (1/4 mile - bike 16 miles and runa 5K). I did it for completion - and did it the next year also.
It felt pretty good to finish, and it gets you in pretty good shape.
Sounds like you have pretty much met your goal - good for you!!!!
by seanferd
Yeah, this thread comes back up occasionally, which is good. You do have some good ideas there. You might just be interested in member TiggerTwo's yearly Breast Cancer Awareness Walk - it is quite a long haul. (You may notice quite a few Pink Ribbon avatars in the forums :) )
Personally, I love to run up and down the sides of the local valley, as it provides more variety than the sidewalk. I'm luck that I live on the sides of a large valley park system - Cleveland Metroparks.
Enjoy the forums, and go ahead and prod this thread occasionally - it always seems to offer something interesting when brough back to life.
Cheers!
by ksoniat
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by locolobo
Saw the thread was bumped this morning. When this thread started I weighed in at around 200 lbs. Sometimes I had to squint my eyes or it might have been a smidgen over 200. :)
There is a lot of good advice in the replies here. You have to read them and take what works for you. What works for one may not work as well for another. Anyways, I've been between 160 & 165 the last four months.
Several suggestions here worked for me. Two things stick out.
First, I started a simple journal logging diet & exercise.
Second, I started riding my bicycle again. Just a little at first, then more. It's amazing how many calories you can burn on the bike.
I just wanted to thank everybody who contributed their opinions here. They did help.
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by ksoniat
I think this is one topic that will never become "dated".
My workout regime is suffering greatly for having gone back to work. I used to work within a mile of a club and I'd go over lunch. I've not quite figured out a good system yet for my new schedule.
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by jiminpa
As someone who has shed 50lbs himself I know how difficult it can be. My peak weight was 225 and I managed to work myself down to 175. I did it by upping my protein intake and trying very hard to stay away from processed carbohydrates. I kept it real, it took me almost a year. I knew I couldn't stop drinking beer all together (my weakness too :) ) so I kept it to no more than one a day, never after 6PM and I drank lite beer except for Sundays when I would allow myself a Sam Adams... mmmm...
Any who, the "diet" I followed was from a Men's Health book called "The Testosterone Advantage Plan". I learned alot about the thermogenic factor of digesting different types of food and things like glycemic index and that kind of stuff. It was tough at first because I loved my sweets but after a while I quit craving them all together and I actually got to a point where I couldn't eat them because I felt bad almost sick to my stomach afterwards.
All that was about 5 years ago and I have managed to keep most of it off (I'm about 185 right now). Stick with it, keep your goals realistic, and pace yourself you will get there. Best of luck my friend.
P.S. That was about the time I learned to drink my coffee black :)
by ontheropes
by jiminpa
Which is probably why it took me a year. ;)
Like I said though you gotta keep it real. I knew my limitations and stayed within them.
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by ksoniat
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by ksoniat
Somehow I knew it wasn't broken doing anything fun - sounds like you are making the best of it.
Nice medical terminology too.
by ontheropes
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by getting drunk and forgetting to eat
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by seanferd
Good for you, sir. And it is awesome that you feel good, too.
Last winter, I developed a bit of a belly for the first time in my life. It was a bit of a shock. It doesn't seem like normal hard work is going to help, so I've had to actually do a bit of abdominal exercise. It just seems weird to me, but I guess my metabolism is slowing down and having an effect, even though I don't eat much at all.
Anyway, keep up the good work, and keep feeling good!
Cheers!
by ontheropes
straight JD or Bicardi, with beer chasers. it amps me up really good and I feel great. Only problem, then I have bigger sleeping issues and I cant seem to turn off the afterburners for days. I just go around totally charged up for days -- and I usually mostly stop eating as well.
The only downside, I am not a good drunk, and I make lots of bad decisions.
but hey -- all in the name of fun and boredom reduction :D
by ontheropes
but no, I make bad, bad choices. So last weekend I decided to go alcohol free again. I love the feeling, but not what I become, think, or do
by ontheropes
and then had a couple of rashes in '95 and '99. I finally gave it up completely until about '04, but I kept it to 1 drink, and only on occasion.
Last year I got a damned good buzz at a work event -- first time I touched Jack Daniels in more than 15 years.
Over the last few weeks I went from 1 beer to a tall glass of JD or Bicardi, and up to 3 beers as a chaser, on an empty stomach. Over that week, I ate 2 meals and lost 10 pounds, but I am still trying to rectify a relationship issue (and I still dont know what I did wrong).
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