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Troublesome Managers....Need some advice guys !!!

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My manager is a very very nice person but he becomes difficult at times.

I am trying to buy an anti virus for the office but my manager is advising me and everyone else to use AVG free edition, which is strictly for home users. We aould get fined a thousand pounds a piece. His reason is that the other offices are using it. The other offices are in another country and are hidden behind a law that says they are ok as long as they are using laptops. But that law is not applicable in the UK.

How do I make him understand??

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by gadgetgirl

For starters, I think you'll find that the free edition isn't meant/won't run on networks. That's a major problem for you. You can't possibly rely on your users to update on their own. (No chance!) Even if you go round yourself, and verbally tell them to do it, I guarantee they'll just say yes, then leave it till they've finished what they're doing, and then forget about it.

Not having it automatically update on the network, is, IMHO about the equivalent of not having any AV on at all.

Second, find the bit in the licencing that says that the particular law does not apply here, and show it to him. Right under his nose. Also, CYA - have a witness present when you show him this. If this law also states what the fines are, put that under his nose, too.

Lastly (for now, this is all off the top of the head) get onto the FAST (Federation Against Software Theft) website. They're the guys who strike fear in the hearts of government offices when they announce a visit. (Been there, done that) Make sure your boss knows who they are, what they can do, and what the likely fines are.

Oh, and FYI - it's not normally known, but persistant offenders have been known to have tax auditors pointed towards them by a certain "department"

Hope this helps - as I said, this is straight from the brain, but I'll keep thinking. If I come up with anything else, I'll let you know.

Best of Luck !

GG

by stargazerr

Good advice...I have tried most of it but I am going to try the new bits...

I have never seen such a stubborn guy...He wont listen to me even when I put the actual figures (the fine he will need to pay) in front of him.

If nothing works, I was just thinking of letting him go ahead and use AVG free. I am certainly not going to use it on my machine. And if he complains...I just plan to say "I said so" ...

by dr dij

DOES update automatically, every time I boot

(not that it's a good idea for your company)

by illilli

My boss once decided to super-micro-manage one of my projects. He was like, "OK, go print out a list of the documents by category." "Now, go through them and manually look for any duplicates." "Do this in Excel, so I can see it." "Now, copy the duplicates over to another Excel sheet." "Check them against what files are on the CDs." On and on and on and on ...

I just gave him indignant look after indignant look as he patronized my intelligence. I was honestly livid by his inefficient methods and instructions! (seriously, I was very pissed)

Well, I finally approached him and asked him why he was micro-managing this project. He explained to me that he liked to get paid just as much as I did. We were going through a slow period and he needed to work on something, so he was helping me.

So, I just let him help. I followed his instructions to the last letter. Hey, I have to get paid too!

Did I have a point here? Oh yeah.... Maybe your boss just doesn't care. He probably doesn't think the use of the software will ever be detected and believes he can worm out of it based on a technicality, probably through blaming someone else in the company like you. We don't always know our manager's intentions and they don't always feel like sharing them with us. However, right or wrong, as long as the buck (or pound in this case) stops with them, so be it!

by jdclyde

and keep HARD COPIES of all emails.

Make sure to always "Reply with history" so it is clear to anyone what is being said all the way through.

State clearly that this is illegal and you feel uncomfortable being told to act like a criminal and will need a lock on the drawer of your desk if you feel that others that you work with ARE criminals.

Show the advantages of the support and features for the paid version.

He is just trying to save a penny, and will spend a dollar to do it.

by mary.shaw

Before you let him go ahead and use AVG free, GET EVERYTHING IN WRITING!!! You may have to be very subtle, get him to send you a memo, save any correspondence referring to this issue. If he's that stubborn and is of the opinion that honesty doesn't count, you can bet that when it doesn't work he's going to pin the whole thing on you and say that he was against it all along. "It's harder to forgive someone for being right than for being wrong." This WILL happen, count on it, so get it in print.

by repub749

GG, you got it nailed, except for the paper trail.

Email them often. I know I'm kinda paranoid about stuff like this, but witnesses can be very forgetful.

I understand what you're going through, though. I worked for a company that was running their entire operation off of a handful of Office copies - and it weren't the OfficeStar variety. I tried to work with them for months, even got a VAR to try to broker with them, but they never moved. So when I quit, I just let the VAR know I was leavin...

by dc guy

The complaints we hear about managers in the U.K. are enough to make us feel fortunate that our own aren't quite as bad as we thought they were.

I can't even imagine a manager in the U.S. in a company of any size suggesting that and getting away with it.

The way you handle it depends on your own perception of risk management. If you simply follow your manager's orders, what kind and how much trouble will you be in? Versus: if you challenge him, what kind and how much trouble will you be in then?

Over here, depending on which state's laws you're subject to, you MIGHT not be prosecuted if the software vendor found out. Courts in many jurisdictons are sympathetic to workers' needs to do what they're told in order to feed their families.

So on with the confrontation option. Most impersonal, most likely to resolve the problem, most likely to make the manager steaming mad: Tell your company's legal counsel about this. Once they know about it they have no choice but to act because they will be held responsible.

Almost as bad for you but not quite as likely to solve the problem: Tell your manager's boss. He may be incompetent, he may agree with your boss, he may tell your boss, he may not appreciate people breaking the chain of command, the list of less-than-optimum outcomes is quite long.

Most bureaucratic: Write a memo to somebody. Your boss, his boss, the company president, the corporate attorney (or do you call them solicitors?), your HR (personnel) department. Say that since you're a mere peon you don't presume to be able to interpret the fine print on software shrink-wrap packages, but you're awfully worried that the company could be on the verge of a terrible mistake. Say that you'll obey your manager's orders because you trust him to do the right thing, yet this issue might be worth review by someone trained in the law. No one will really be fooled by your language, but by putting this in writing you have evidence that at least you thought about what you were doing and asked for help. It will put your boss in the uncomfortable position of knowing that your memo is on record and he won't be able to easily weasel out of an accusation. He still won't be happy with you, but in some cases this paper trail could protect you from the worst of his wrath.

The obvious: Talk to your manager. I assume you've already tried that, to no avail. Explained to him what you've explained to us. That his reasoning is faulty and that he could be subjecting you all to the possibility of a crippling fine. That you all love him but nobody loves anybody THAT much.

It might help to get a couple of other employees scared witless about this so he'd hear it from more than one person. Especially if one of them is so scared that HE would talk to the boss instead of you having to do it. ^_^

by stargazerr

I am certainly going to put this in writing. Better yet I can write to our top techie, who also happens to be a partner with the company :D (why didnt I think of that before??)

And yes you are right, I have talked to my manager about this but to no avail. Told the legal advisor...he told me sit and read AVG's terms and conditions...:@ ... I told him "That's your job.I have read them and I know we will be fined, thats why I am making such a fuss..." .... Honestly !!!

by johanv

Without knowing exactly how your site is structured (in terms of hardware/users/etc.) I can only give some vague insight on how I would approach the matter.
Write a detailed report outlining why a certain solution is required. Detail what would be achieved with a solution. Basically, prepare a business case and distribute that to all the relevant stakeholders. Hope that makes sense to you (sometimes I confuse myself ;-))

by jck

Present the facts to him in an email. Both the statement that the software is not free for commercial and/or government use, then show him the legal consequences of his approval of such implementation.

Then in the email ask for a directive from him of what to do. Make sure he states what his order is to you.

Then, you have these options:

- Do what he says and keep that document at home where he orders you to do it...if you don't think you'll go to jail for it...or won't lose your job.

- Take that order in print to his superior, if you think that they'll back you all the way after going over his head for telling you to commit a criminal act at their company.

- Refuse to do it, even if he orders it and risk termination for insubordination. However, you'll have documentation that you were being told to commit a crime and would probably have basis for tort (I don't know English law, but I assume it's fairly close to American) for improper termination.

That's the best I can think to do...cover your own arse in the best way possible for your situation though.

Good luck

by stargazerr

:D Thanks mates...I am trying everything....

Will let you know which solution works....

Damn these managers

by maxwell edison

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Outline, in writing, the reasons a company should always comply to software licensing agreements. Explain how the long term best-interests of the company are compromised by violating the agreements, and you strongly encourage compliance.

Short of refusing to install unlicensed software or going over his head, that's about the best you can do.

by stargazerr

I had a very respectful chat with him...but he isnt ready to listen...

I even tried getting our top techie and partner to say yes...(he agreed, of course, him being a techie). M manager said that he can think about it now since the top techie has said so...but he is taking ages in thinking...All the sales people are pestering me because they dont have a decent anti virus..and I dont really want to tell them to use AVG Free because then it will be harder to convert them

by gadgetgirl

and keep the soft line. By not letting them use AVG free, you're keeping the ball in your court. You're right, you'd never convert them.

But keep a note of who is pestering, why and how many. This is your evidence for getting a better AV than the one you're currently using. (Regardless of which one)

As for persuasion - if in doubt, a brick over the head normally helps a lot, I find, should the prospect of fines have no effect.....

I assume he'll do "the usual" - if he agrees not to use the free one, he'll then take ages to decide what to do next....which is where your pester list comes in handy in confirming that you need a rapid solution - - which you will have already researched, costed and sorted out well in advance of being asked, won't you ????!!!!

GG

by maxwell edison

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Now why didn't I think of that?

However, sometimes the "Silver Tongue Devil" approach might work better than the "Silver Hammer" approach.

by stargazerr

I have it all sorted out...What I want to buy, why I wnat to buy it and how much its going to cost....

Just need him to say yes....maybe if I hypnotize him...??? what do u think ?? :p

by gadgetgirl

now, if you were talking about one GROSS, then yes, please....

it's Friday. Again. Those of you who know me already know I get user-itis on a Friday....yup, yet another information incident...why Fridays?

GG

by jck

I would expect anyone good with hands-on IT to give me a good sledgehammer...

And, believe me...all I need is one sledgehammer to leave a mark :)

by gadgetgirl

providing I can use them on HOB, IF, 2 idiotic neighbours, bus drivers, and various other car drivers on my work route.....

So, that's 2 gross, plus 1 for us_g, plus 1 for jck.... = 290! hey, 10 more and we can demand bulk discount!!

:D

GG

by stargazerr

I was thinking .... how about if, instead of a sledgehammer, I just chuck my computer at him?? Without a proper AV it wouldn't come to any other use anyway....:D

US

P.S It will also help cut down the bulk number of sledgehammers we are going to order :p

by jck

you can always apply the voltage through his keyboard via leafing the lettering.

of course, the smell of burny manager might be hard to get rid of...

back to your primal modes...quicker and more cost effective...

by billharr

AVG free supposedly will not update from a network folder (managed by the AVG Admin tools). This means all your users will be hitting the AVG update servers daily and AVG will see a block of update requests coming from AVG Free users at one IP address. Whatcha think they're gonna think when they're checking the log reports? Methinks your boss is pushin the risk right up to the edge on this decision. I'd just make sure you've got something in writing that shows you didn't agree with this decision and makes it look like someone other than you did the installs. Good luck!

by stargazerr

First of all....sorry I was awya in wilderness for the weekend...so i couldn't reply....

I am making sure everything is documented and in writing...But I just want him to sya yes to buy a proper AV...Is that so difficult?? Ahh...Managers :p

by nevtxjustin9

Instead of a fixed time each morning, you could set it to update after a computer restart in the morning to stagger the update requests. But then, there's really no need to restart Windows (snicker).

by stargazerr

We just have to sometimes keep our intelligence to one side and let the managers have their way....:D

by stargazerr

Thats absolutely brilliant......I can make do with the burning manager smell....:D ... would love to see his hair charred and standing out ...

by jck

but, i'm afraid the FBI and Secret Service and CIA and DSS will start following me realizing little tricks I know.

God, if they only knew what papers I wrote back in the days of 300 baud modems and 64k computers ]:)

um...btw...I don't endorse violence against anyone...at least, anyone who hasn't pissed me off... ]:)

by jdclyde

because you want to make sure your not using invalid reasons in your arguement or you just blew all credibility for all other arguements.

Never exadurate, never imbellish. Just the facts (ma'am).

by stargazerr

:) That is the foremost thing in my mind...Shouldn't say anything that could be held against me in the future :)

by stargazerr

Hmmm....I never thought about replying with history...I usually delete text before replying to the email (to keep it neat and clean).

In this case, I guess I will just have to stop being so neat :D ..Thanx for the tip jd.

by jdclyde

because if someone has many things going on in their day, and all of a sudden get an email from me saying "yes, sounds good", they are going to have no idea what I am babbling about.

By leaving the history intact, it is easy for them to see what I am replying too.

When it comes to a cya situation like this, it is twice as important to have all of that information together.

Good luck with this.

Neatness is WAY over rated anyways.

by stargazerr

Yeah ... my granny is the cause of this she is super clean and i have been living wit her for the past $ months :D

by jdclyde

come to my house! I need a neat freak to room with me for about a month! ;\ I will do all the cooking! (you do like steak, right?)

by jdclyde

Oh well, probably wouldn't have had the strength to push the vacume around anyways..... :O [i](did I say that out loud?)[/i]

So are you a health nut, someone that doesn't like the taste, or a "love animals, not eat them" kind of person?

by stargazerr

I want to be a health nut...but I am too lazy....

Its a love animals thing....I got into a major argument with a colleugue the other day :D Something about molars and premolars (teeth)

by jck

thing is...just remember:

Backdoors in software are like cockroaches. For everyone one you see, there's 10 more you never knew about.

I'm waiting for some 15 year old to accidentally find one someday and bring down half the world's computers.

There will be a class-action suit at that point...no matter what the EULA says.

by mgfyo01

Something that worked retty well for me in the past :

1. You show your boss the evidences about the fact using this software is illegal

2. You tell him : I should not be penally responsible for what you order me to do, so please give me a written order to do so.

Guess what will happen !

by n.vanrijnberk

As this post stated:
get the responsibilties clear in writing.
get the riscs clear in writing: Chance and consequence/money
Then you'll get the picture clear who's accepting the risc.

I'm also frusstrated by managers who rule against our well stated advice/arguments.
Keep the responsibilties for this decision clear for yourself, your manager and his superior.

by n.vanrijnberk

He's insulting your intelligence.
You're the specialist/geek.

he should be intelligent enough to acknowledge that and to understand that you're opninon is in the best interest of the company you both working dor.

by deception

After having managed the entire helpdesk and support service (which has been going on for half a year before I commenced with them) for the company for almost 2 years. Knowing each and every customers front to back. Recovered the organisation's from bad reputation and the dodgie jobs they used to do.

New management started, and new manager joined our team. He demanded reports which I've been writing for the past year and a half, I told him it's already there but he got aggro' at me and ordered me to do it in the format he wants. This basically diverted me from my main responsibilities. Took me half a day everyday for almost 3 weeks to complete it.

Then he he kept asking me to add things to it, or if he changed his mind, he would order me to modify it.

Reports after reports, he requested the same piece of information, everytime I would say "it's already there, in the last report". His failure to spend enough time to understand the structure of our current work and client has made me suffered greatly. After so many reports I said to him.....

"Look, I don't mean to offend you, but I think you haven't been reading every paragraphs of my reports, the pieces of information you require and asked for have always been in the last 9 revisions of the reports"

He then got really angry as if I was insulting his intelligence or something. So I gave him the final report an hour later and told him if he is not happy then he is very welcome to walk down to the other floors and promote someone to do my job.

I regret not leaving the company at the time, I was later asked to install pirated software, lie to clients, secretly breaching the service level agreement, and overcharging customers.

I did stand up for what I believed was right, then he sacked for some stupid reasons he made up.

by swgoldwire2546

I would rather not work for that company if that company under management changes does some shady deeds. Perhaps that manager is doing it illegally for money.

Just a brief thought, that is all.

-swg

by real aus tech

Because that company is clearly heading for trouble, very much big time! Sooner or later (and probably much sooner), they will get caught breaking the law, and then the sh** will well and truly hit the fan. So good luck in whatever new job you have

by advancewithit

If push comes to shove and software auditors turn up at the office door, he will be the one facing legal action, not you. If he's happy with the prospect of losing thousands of pounds or even facing prison, then that's up to him. I don't see why you should lose any sleep over it.

You could always argue that AVG Free is a dire piece of AV software as well and could leave the business exposed to security threats.

by stargazerr

He is already using AVG Free on his computer and he happens to think its brilliant ...

Another thing that really "HELPED" was that one of our techies in another country adviced him that AVG Free is ok. The reason this other techie can use AVG Free is that, in that particular country, they are hidden behind a law which says its ok if they use it on laptops in an office... but that doesnt work in the UK.

]:)

by ananthap

Not just a simple fine. If AVG sues your company then the CEO gets dragged in. Maybe thats your selling point.

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by spinner of websites

tell the CEO about what your manager is doing and let him know that he will be dragged in by this legally. One thing you need to remember, if you do this, you'll probably get fired by your manager for going over his/her head. But, maybe not, if your manager gets sacked first. If there is a way to do this on the quiet, then that would be best.

by too old for it

It's only your job to make your manager look good to his superiors. (Right Maxwell?)

Let's face it, this guy didn't become a software thieving bastard on his own. Some "IT is a cost - must cut costs" CxO budgeted him in that direction.

AVG is a darn fine anti-virus, and will update on its own. I use it around the lab at a non-profit I work at when rehabbing donated PC's until I see where they are actually going and can install a licensed copy NAV for the particular charitable use.

AVG does sell network versions and so forth, and the only thing "preventing" me from wholesale use is the charitable license from Symantec.

by stargazerr

buying AVG Network edition.We dont have the file server set up yet, but I am going to do it sometime soon. Was busy setting it up for another office ... AVG Network works without a network and can be upgraded to work on a network as well ...

It is the easiest fit.

]:)

by stargazerr

That one definately goes into my list of tactics

(writes)

1. Buy Sledgehammer
2. Spike Keyboard
3. Forward pestering emails

]:)

by attackcomputerwhiz

If you can (preferably in a personal file form from your mail client) save the mail on a thumb drive. That way you can secure your files off the server. I do that and there have been occassions where I had to dig back four or five years to find a message that covered my butt. It's worth the little extra effort and you don't have to search through stacks of paper. There are way too many people jockeying for position out there not to CYA anyway you can!

by leonard j rivera sr.

Have a meeting, on record, with HR present and state your case simply, you refuse to break the law. You should have as much of this communicated via email for record keeping. Basically, email out the meeting request including the reason for the meeting, stick with the provable facts and stick to your guns.

In the end, you can not be fired for refusing to break the law. You can sue the company simply for having a supiriour ask you to do so and you can sue for even more if you are fired for refusing to break the law.

by stargazerr

We dont have a HR...Its just 15 people working in this office ...and everyone answers to the office manager..

I am recording everything we discuss though....Record as in ... Emails ..

]:)

by judy62

Do you research and provide him with hard and fast proof that unless he is willing to put the correct antivirus software on to the network, then it is going to cost $XXX. Also if you can, let soemone else of authority know, document everything, so if it does come back top haunt you, you have evidence that you advised him of the risk.

Good luck

by swgoldwire2546

That manager of yours should take into consideration of the laws of the land, particularly in the UK. You should reason with him regarding applicable laws and how it would affect business.

He should also factor in the cost of setting up antivirus software legally. If that case scenario is not working for you, take your leave, only with tact and consent.

-swg

by stargazerr

Yeah I am guessing this trouble is because he is not a UK national ..

I think a sledgehammer is the best approach ... do you want one?? To use on your manager?? ;)

]:)

by tor24

Will this purchase diminish you or your manager's annual bonus or something? Find the key to happiness. Sometimes folks get big bonuses for spending lots of money and making a mundane project appear WILDLY successful.

by stargazerr

Every office gets a monthly budget for their expenses and they have to stay within it ....

But Good News .. I got him to say yes for a Server ... None of other offices have one

]:)

by ou jipi je

Long time ago, one of the "IT managers" suggested that _no antivirus software_ is required on backoffice servers as no one logs directly into them. When sysadmin explained the concept behind Microsoft vulerable services and available exploits the manager was looking at the wall, completely uninterested. It cost too much money, he said in the end. Sysadmin (pulling his hair out) returned to his desk and wrote the IT manager an e-mail starting along the lines of: In our conversation today I have understood that....and finishing with...is my understanding correct? BCC'd the CEO of the company. The shit of course hit the fan as IT Manager and CEO, while having no clue, entered the dicussion concerning network security. Soon it become clear that the suggestion came actually from the COO and not IT manager himself. They called the sysadmin in the office to recapp on some questions - The sysadmin answered something along the lines: If you want to make bad choices - you are bosses, it is _your_ call - and I will do what you request me to do. As long as _you_ accept the responsibility for the decisions you are taking and _I_ don't have to carry the can when things go astray -- I have no problem with that. When the word responsibility popped up, all three of them stepped back 20 metres and sysadmin got proper product for all the servers purchased two days later.

Note that the incompetence of IT manager and COO was never ackowledged by the CEO in this story and none of them (including systadmin) suffered any consequences. It all just went away....

by stargazerr

I love that story ...

Let me print out the words "Its your responsibilty" and stick it to my forehead when me and my manager talk about this next

]:)

by mostcs

This was along my thoughts. I would have him sign a paper that says you recommended against this and that he is ignoring your suggestion before you do any installs.

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