AOL compatability with wireless DSL

We recently switched to wireles DSL and now my AOL does not work (my husband has no problem with his and we have the same set ups). I talked with AOL who told me this was a DSL issue. I talked with Verizon DSL who told me it was an AOL issues. Back to AOL who again told me it was a DSL issue. Can you give me any insight as to which way to go? The problem is that AOL cannot locate the DSL connection when it does its search so it sounds to me like it is an AOL issues. I hvae no problem connecting to the internet directly through Internet Explorer.
Thank you.
Virginia Harwood
RandiRushe@aol.com