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Bi-Polar OCD Boss
He got his friend, the previous IS Administrator fired and accepted the position himself.
I have found after a year and a half, that he is an abuser -- it's all verbal, but it is both mental and emotional, and he can be brutal. I am now on acute stress leave. The man gets nose to nose and screams at me, takes my words and twists them them passes them off as truth and if he gets busted he says I lied (sorry, long sentence). He daily tells me every negative thing he can think of about me and my work. He tells me as often as he can that no one there is my friend, he is my only friend. And it goes on, ad nauseum.
Being on stress leave, I have been inactivated in the system. The BPD/OCD boss is still there. I've already busted him once for getting into Exchange and reading my email -- and threatening to fire me for it!! I've gone to HR twice and he's been written up twice. He lies so much you never know when it's truth, when it's a lie, and when it's half/half. He loves to keep the users in the dark, and flies into rages when pushed into making a commitment (okay, whatever, the network will be up in an hour, now leave me alone!) He screams at all the techs and makes sure everyone can hear him. Did I mentiion he lies. Oh, yes, and that he is really good a lying.
I have documentation on Exchange on my my personal folder on the server. Since he has locked me out, since he can so what he pleases with my email, since all he has to do is change my network password from UserManager, he can get into all my files. Especially those I've been documenting and trying to get off the premises since I've learned he's reading my email. He threatened to have me fired if I emailed one more negative thing about him off-premises.
How do I protect myself from this man? I love my work, my job, the people. I don't want anything vindicitive against this man. But I don't know how to protect myself from him, since his Admin privileges out-privelege mine, and he can whatever he wants.
I am so afraid of his retribution my knees clatter together. I am on acute stress leave by order of Occupation Therapy (Workers Comp)and so feel like my back is unprotected.
Nervous in Stockton