Networks

That you don't give any information whatsoever that would somehow give a clue to what you want to do.

Where is the server?
Why does this server need to use a database that you have on your computer?
What type of server?
What type of database?
Do you want a permanent connection, or just upload some records from your own database?
And what do you want to achieve?

A server application connects to a database as a user...