Have you ever worked with a proprietary system, even though I know you are in the VoIP industry.
You have no control network side on most of these issues, the system simply won't start without those parameters first being checked and approved by the system. Tweaking your network side will ensure a NEAX never boots.
In these high end products, such as I assume the original poster is using (has a pBX not a Key System now) you MUST MUST MUST MUST MUST have the manufacturer trained techniciann complete the ENTIRE install. Failure to do so, void your warranty on a large investment. And you will get NO phone support with out a licence code. In fact most can't be configured/features unlocked etc. period without a licence code provided by the manufacturer for everyone who has completed their training, even then they are checked for the level of training they have and if they don't meet standards for specific line cards they can't even get the codes themselves.
People have always TRIED to circumvent this by saying they have unstalled networks and home sytems for years, blah,blah,blah but they can't even get it to power up. The manufacturer won't even take their calls as you need a code just to place a call to tech support, the warranty is null and void instantly and it will NEVER be covered even if the equipment is resold, once it is touched by unauthorized hands it's all over.
They offer system management consoles for IT staff to play with, and that's it.
The system REQUIRES a Virtual Network and creates it's own, while also utilizing it's own QOS to ensure your lines are installed and configured correctly. It is out of the admins hands (thank god) for MANY reasons, MOST IT staff even those with communications training do NOT understand how these products work and funble through them with nothing but problems and end up saying the system sucks because it doesn't sound right, features wont work etc. Even being trained two years ago, I am not authorized to install NEW NEC VoIP PBX's or Nortel BCM's unless using older software versions.
If they update the software level, ALL techs need to upgrade skills and get new certification. All clients MUST also upgrade their systems before any further warranty work will be performed.
So unless they are looking for a smaller, bridged or outsourced solution, it is a TERRIBLE idea to even begin setting up a network to be VoIP complaint, it will only make the real installers job a little harder and costly to the employer.
Let the instalers arrange and configure line services, let them cable your system and let them configure your PBX. THey won't mess with your network, if you don't mess with their PBX. And yes it is regarded as THEIR PBX, you just pay for it and use it, other than that it it out of your hands. I have yet to meet a single IT person, who knew how to PROPERLY install a PBX, yet alone VoIP in proprietary systems. I have spoken and worked with some real long term GURUS of IT, they just knew better right from the get go and left it up to the provider to install.
EDIT: In all fairness though you are right on these issues and you have also mentioned there is a difference between an admin and a VoIP Admin. As for packet tweaking, this is handled automatically by most PBX based systems and when it comes to DHCP, hate to break it to you but that is the ONLY service that an NEC will install, it handles the static addressing from that point in the form of a virtual network, where it also controls QOS.