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what do i do ? suicide ?

By Virendra Argekar ·
well i am 16 yr old guy ....

this is a bit far away from technology...but related....

well...some of my friends have been sending attachments.... .exe files which ruin ur pc...with MY NAME....

so all dumbos do not beleive me....some one sends a fake mail and attachment....i am blamed by everyone....

everyone....even the guys who thought were my best friends have turned against me....

how do i explain this....rumours are spread...i hack and all that ****....
anything that happens....

that day my friend ,i gave him a net booster application....he says it slowed down his pc....and evern the internet !!! IS IT POSSIBLE THAT BECAUSE OF A APPLICATION... YOUR INTERNET GETS SLOW.... NO WAY....

its just jeolusy that i am a MCSE and other guys are not tht they are doing this.....i do i protect my self against this....

please guide..me...i dunno what to do....dumb thing....i feel like suiciding

bye
virendra

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Pray!

And when you are through

Pray again!

The best answer is no answer at all
Just keep on with what you are doing and ignore it. Your true friends will believe you and those that don't, well you are just sorting the wheat from the chaff.

Suicide is a little drastic don't you think

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by ryttinch In reply to what do i do ? suicide ?

Sounds like they're not really friends to me. I've had to make the choice between freinds and other stuff before, and it's not easy, but be true to yourself, and things will work out.

I would suggest, however, that you try to prove that it was not you that has sent the emails. It could save you from getting into trouble later on.

Good Luck!!

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by Peyison In reply to what do i do ? suicide ?

Virendra,

You're obviously a smart guy - and if you're already an MCSE at 16, I'd say you have a pretty bright future ahead as far as a career goes. Don't let this foolish nonsense get to you.

You must know that if it ever came down to it, itcan be proven that you didn't sent the email. And you know that a PC app will have no affect on the Internet.

Of course I don't know for sure, but I bet these "friends" all probably know better, but are just giving you a hard time.

I'd say it's time to find some new friends. Life is short enough as it is - the answer is not to make it shorter, but to put yourself in an environment where you can enjoy it.

Good luck.

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by dmiles In reply to what do i do ? suicide ?

First of all you sound like a gifted person that has made some accomplishments in your life at a young age,but along with that comes peer pressure that brings up the other stuff that makes you feel unwanted and you go out of your way to make friendsand to fit in with the crowd,this I think is what you have to deal with.Look to talking to your counselors at your school or mentor that you can talk to about a situation as
this.You will have to look at what part you played in this situation and find a way to accept your part,you may have to humble yourself.The situation sounds cruel,yet I think it will **** over and things will get back to normal,suicide is not the answer and it sounds as though you are asking for help and this is shown by posting this in the forum,and I am not quite sure that it is okay,and the points are not important.I feel that you have more to offer in life than what you are thinking and it is the youth of today that will guide us in the future,so look to that as what you can offer and be a part of.
What may work on one person's computer may not necessarily perform the same on another and I think you know that,so talk to the guy and offer your apoligies for suggesting the application and ask him to uninstallit.
The fear of what you think is not all ways the way it will turn out to be.
Another thing you may have to find new friends,or look to other areas that you can be helpful to others to apply what you have learned.Keep your head up and as life goes on so will you.
Hav a Good Day

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by nerdy_gurl In reply to what do i do ? suicide ?

Dear Virendra,

Sometimes the toughest questions to answer are like the one you have and they are not dumb questions.

Since you are an MCSE, I believe you have the technological answers to how your friends do this to you. But please permit me to put a couple cents in here and suggest that possibly the mail headers will have pertinent information, even though they might be forged.

I understand your concern about being tagged as a hacker because of all the nasty things associated with the'name' such as viruses, etc. Perhaps you could keep a private record of those you know have done this, so if your integrity ever comes into question, you can defend yourself in an honorable way.

As a mother I have had to face the problems of my daughters having trouble with certain 'friends'. Jealousy is a powerful motivator for bad behavior. Please don't think of suicide as an option. I understand how having friends is so very important when you are young, but try to remember when the goinggets tough, to die is forever! As friends go, they will change, and the circumstances around them will change, no matter what your age.

Hopefully you can ignore the rumors as much as you can without being subservient. As others have said these folks are not really friends.

You have a bright future already with your knowledge, so don't let these so-called friends ruin your life before it has a real chance to start.

I wish you happiness and the best of luck!

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