I've looked through the config you posted and nothing jumps out at me. I don't think you can connect your Vonage device directly to the internet as it looks like he has a static IP from his ISP and I don't think you can configure a static IP on the Vonage device. It would be helpful to substitute another router for the Cisco though to make sure we're working on the right thing.
Aside from substituting another router, something you can check is:
(1) run the "show interfaces" command and look for errors. The output for each interface will look like this:
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Cisco-831#sh int
FastEthernet1 is up, line protocol is up
Hardware is FastEthernet, address is 0000.0000.0000 (bia 0000.0000.0000)
MTU 1500 bytes, BW 100000 Kbit, DLY 100 usec,
reliability 255/255, txload 1/255, rxload 1/255
Encapsulation ARPA, loopback not set
Keepalive set (10 sec)
Auto-duplex, Auto Speed, 100BaseTX/FX
ARP type: ARPA, ARP Timeout 04:00:00
Last input never, output never, output hang never
Last clearing of "show interface" counters never
Input queue: 0/75/0/0 (size/max/drops/flushes); Total output drops: 0
Queueing strategy: fifo
Output queue: 0/0 (size/max)
5 minute input rate 0 bits/sec, 0 packets/sec
5 minute output rate 0 bits/sec, 0 packets/sec
41558 packets input, 0 bytes
Received 0 broadcasts, 0 runts, 0 giants, 0 throttles
0 input errors, 0 CRC, 0 frame, 0 overrun, 0 ignored
0 watchdog
0 input packets with dribble condition detected
11434 packets output, 0 bytes, 0 underruns
0 output errors, 0 collisions, 0 interface resets
0 babbles, 0 late collision, 0 deferred
0 lost carrier, 0 no carrier
0 output buffer failures, 0 output buffers swapped out
Take a look at that and if you can substitute the Cisco router with another, post the results.
Netman